Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Pick yourself up.... Dust yourself off... And start all over again!


Another of "Your Life Support" post...  I read them and just have to share. 
They say so much.  Who of us doesn't "beat" ourselves up for mistakes that we make?  Maybe just maybe we should be grateful we are making a few!!!




HARD WON WISDOM



Theodore Levitt
, of the Harvard Business School, said, "Experience
comes from what we have done. Wisdom comes from what we have done
badly." Theodore Levitt sounds like a wise person. I wonder what he's
done badly.

Based on his reasoning, I must be bursting with wisdom. Over the
years, I've racked up an impressive number of things that haven't gone
too well.

But put another way, wisdom is what the school of life gives us with
every poor report card. Wisdom is hard won, and it is often birthed in
the ashes of failure.

One man tells of meeting one of the truly "wise" ones among us on a
flight to Florida. He was preparing his notes for a parent-education
seminar he was to conduct there. Bessie, an older woman sitting next
to him, explained that she was returning home after having spent two
weeks visiting her six children, 18 grandchildren and ten
great-grandchildren .

Then she asked him what he did for a living. The man explained that he
was a psychologist specializing in children. He dreaded telling her
this, as he fully expected her to probe him for free professional
advice during the three-hour flight. But not this wise woman. Instead,
she sat back, picked up a magazine and said, "So doctor, if there's
anything you want to know, just ask me."

Bessie's years of parenting and grand-parenting gave her what no
professional degrees could – it gave her hard won wisdom. Much of what
she knew about children could only be learned through experience,
including experiences of failure.

I really don't worry about the things I've done badly. If I paid
attention to what went wrong and why, then even my most spectacular
failures gave something priceless back – they taught valuable lessons.
Sometimes wisdom can't be gotten any other way.

~ Steve Goodier







So the next time a mistake is made
(and we all make them),
instead of thinking "How dumb!"
(or that we are a failure)
it might be more appropriate to say,
"Just look how wise I'm becoming!!!"




11 comments:

  1. I wonder how often I'm going to fail before I find success and wisdom. I'm not sure I can pick myself up this time...and if I do how willing I'll be to jump again. ....so.....I guess you're going to have to push me off the edge or hold my hand and jump with me. Maybe we can figure out how to soar together.

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  2. yes, that's an excellent..and very wise attitude!
    :)

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  3. lol.... good advice! we can only do it for ourselves though....

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  4. I seem to make more than my share of errors but luckily, they seem to simple things to fix....

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  5. I should be very clever by now...

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  6. Somewhat wise graduate of The School of Hard Knocks. . .

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  7. I have only made one mistake in my entire life. That led to many failures from simply believing I didn't make any mistakes even though deep inside I felt I was one while always claiming it's another ones fault. Only in the silence of self pity did I blame myself. That inner voice recorded and left by an abusive Father always convinced me why I couldn't do anything right and yet I tried again. My past now holds the keys to the kingdom and I thank God I can make more mistakes as I trudge now making fewer of them.

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  8. yep we all be geniouses lol
    good post :)

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  9. We have all been there at one time or another..got my hand out for you too..

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  10. This is a very good post beautiful lady..reminds me why my nickname is Cat...I land on my feet most of the time, but there are times we just have to pick ourselves up, dust off and keep on goin..have done that enough in my lifetime.

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